Lying Destroys Relationships... SAVE YOURS BEFORE ITS TOO LATE

If you’ve ever been lied to, you know how difficult it can be to ever trust that person again. You can’t help but wonder why a friend or family member would treat you so poorly

Using deception in a romantic relationship or marriage is problematic because it often leads to a loss of trust and it makes people feel less close to each other

Trust is vital in a romantic relationship.

When you lie, even if you think others will never find out, you will almost certainly create a barrier of hurt in your relationship.Unfortunately, when the other person finds out about your lying, and they usually do, it’s nearly impossible to regain trust.

It is impossible to have a close, healthy relationship without trust.  You need to be able to trust what a partner tells you.  Unfortunately, the best way to destroy trust is by getting caught deceiving a spouse or boyfriend/girlfriend.

So what do you want your relationships to be based on? Lies that you tell, in order to protect yourself, or to avoid conflict? Or do you want relationships to be based on a commitment to honesty and integrity, regardless of the hard times? It’s up to you to decide.

When you continue to lie, it’s like putting a giant rock on your back and having to carry it around everywhere you go. It is a relationship destroyer that ends up destroying you.

Lying destroys us because it takes us into a vicious cycle that is extremely difficult to get free from. Once you tell a lie, you usually have to lie again to cover up the first lie, and you feel even worse. And ironically, the more we lie to others, the less we trust them.  We project our own deceptive tendencies on to others.  If you think that your romantic partner is being less than completely honest – it can be a reflection of your own deceptive behaviour.

People who are trapped in a cycle of lying become controlled by fear—a fear of not only being found out as a liar, but also having the truth uncovered about themselves.

It all comes down to this: Lying comes with a huge cost—it destroys lives. Relationships will crumble and people will refuse to trust you. But the person most hurt by your lying is you. 

It’s time for all of us to make a bold decision to never let lies have any part of our lives.

Waju

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